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I employed a personal detective to catch my long-term associate having intercourse with escorts

LOVE DEIDRE: I was delighted to prove that my ten year old partner cheated.

He thought he was so smart and lied for seeing escorts, but I caught him.


I hired a private investigator to catch my partner cheating

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My team and I will safely work from home, but as always we are here to help.

He lied to me for two years and no matter how hard I tried to believe him, it never really worked out.

Finally, I hired a private investigator to provide the evidence I needed to finally show him the door.

He’s 35 and I’m 33. He told me early on in our relationship that he had been with escorts before and loved the fact that they were so experienced while assuring that it was in his past for sex too pay.

But we went through a bad spot and when I tried to initiate sex he refused me.

He got really mysterious with his phone so one day I had a sniff on his laptop when he was in the shower.

In the past few weeks he had checked escort websites several times.

But when I confronted him, he said he was just looking and accusing me of creating a problem that wasn’t there.

I knew I had to get to the bottom of his lies. I googled private investigators and had him approved for 48 hour surveillance every week for a day for a month.

I have to admit that I was so excited that I was finally going to find out the truth.

Can’t you get started

Do you need to get back to basics?

The private investigator was very professional when he submitted the final report.

When I slit the seal and the photos fell on my coffee table, there was no denying that he had been unfaithful. There it was, in black and white.

He’d had sex in the passenger seat of our car and, worse, let various women into my home while I was working.

I left the photos there so he could see them as soon as he got home from work.

I felt so victorious when he came in and spat three words: “Pack your bags.”

I threw the pictures at him. He left that night and I’ve refused to speak to him since then.

But now the thrill of the chase and the sense of justification is gone.

I just feel lonely and betrayed. How can I trust again?

DEIDRE SAYS: Nobody deserves to be treated so badly.

Even though he lied to you for two years, as you say, you always knew he was lying.

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So, you can trust your instincts to let you know if you’ve met someone who can treat you with the respect you deserve.

You have had a bad experience, but you can find happiness with someone who is new.

I’m sending you my Support Pack to find the right partner for you to help you move forward.

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